A Dance Among the Headstones: The Unforgettable Experience at Gays and Graves - A Big Gay Festival

Under the radiant sun on a lively Saturday afternoon In Washington, D.C., I entered the lush Congressional Cemetery for Gays and Graves: A Big Gay Festival. The festival transformed this historic burial space into a vibrant celebration of life, love, and the LGBTQIA+ community, creating an atmosphere like no other. Gays and Graves is a joyful gathering that honors LGBTQ+ history, creativity, and community spirit

Exploring the Unique Booths

Gays and Graves featured an array of unique booths spotlighting local artists and businesses. Imagine finding handmade jewelry that dazzles, artistic crafts that inspire, and vibrant apparel that celebrates identity. Each booth underscored the LGBTQ+ spirit, making the festival a rich tapestry of creativity.

One local artist, Caitlin Eaves, captivated my attention with her vibrant hand made items such as my new 'Gender Fluid' coffee mug! She is a hobby potter working in Takoma Park, Maryland, who loves making functional ceramics. In her day job, she manages a research center at the University of Maryland. She has a loving an supportive partner, Angie who backs her in all of her artistic desires.

Check out her page or follow her on Instagram @studioeaves

Historical Context: A Meaningful Setting

The historical significance of Congressional Cemetery remained at the forefront of all festival goers minds. This resting place is home to many influential figures, reminding us of the movements fought by those before us for the rights we now celebrate. Knowing that we were celebrating Pride 2025 amidst such history emphasized our responsibility to honor that legacy.

The blend of jubilance and solemnity served as a poignant reminder that freedom comes with sacrifices. As we celebrated freedom, artistry, and love, we also paid homage to the lives and struggles that paved the way for our current joys.

While many LGBTQIA+ individuals are buried throughout the graveyard, there is a special location known to all as "Gay Corner". "Gay Corner" is believed to be the first LGBTQIA+ section of a cemetery in the nation. It began with the death of TSgt Leonard Matlovich's death in 1988. I had the privilege of meeting up with members from the LGBT Fallen Heroes Foundation. As we walked through the winding headstones we posed for a photo with the late TSgt, met individuals who purchased their plots already, and dozens of individuals looking to commemorate the fallen LGBTQIA+ veterans and first responders.

A Moment of Reflection

Taking a breath, I looked around at the smiling faces that surrounded me and felt a profound sense of gratitude. Gays and Graves was more than just a festival; it was a gathering of souls, an affirmation of strength and resilience within the LGBTQ+ community.

Members of the LGBT Fallen Heroes Foundation and Veteran's Leather Alliance Pose with TSgt Leonard Phillip Matlocivh

Reflecting on the reaffirmation of identity and joy, I realized the importance of creating inclusive spaces where everyone can thrive. This festival left a lasting impression, reminding me of the power of unity and acceptance in the face of adversity.

From Celebration to Reflection: Embracing Unity and Love

As I departed that day, my heart felt lighter and my spirit lifted. Gays and Graves: A Big Gay Festival was not merely an event; it was a profound gathering of souls united under one banner: love.

This experience brought new appreciation for the importance of celebrating our unique identities and finding joy even amidst life’s challenges. I eagerly await the next festival, ready to embrace the rich stories and connections made during this unforgettable event. Let’s continue to dance among the headstones, celebrating life and love with every step!

For More information about the LGBT Fallen Heroes Foundation check out our 'Resources Page' and vist their website for how you can get involved!